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Beliefs
We
talk about the formation of beliefs in every one
of our seminars. Beliefs are patterns that run
our lives and many of them we got by accident
without our permission. Do you have the same religion
as your parents? Did they ask your permission?
I'm not about to quibble with anyone's beliefs
- just notice how many of them were given to you
and then notice if they're working for you or
not. I have a strong belief in gravity. It's one
I can validate as a citizen of the earth. If I
were an astronaut and experienced weightlessness,
I may be able to put a question mark next to my
strong belief in gravity. This question mark may
lead me to a less absolute position on gravity
and may become a stepping-stone to other exceptions
to the rule. If enough exceptions start showing
up, I may stop blindly leading my life by a belief
that's not entirely accurate. Just by noting the
exceptions, I create the capacity for growth.
Socrates said, "The unexamined life is not worth
living." I think an unexamined belief is a padlock
on a self-maintained jail cell. Beliefs are serious
and silly. If you have a belief in one of the
staple topics of talk radio (gun control, birth
control, abortion, capital punishment, etc.),
you consider that to be a serious belief. If you're
willing to argue with someone about the right
way to hang toilet paper, I consider that a silly
belief. Whether serious or silly, they got into
your mind the same way. You got some information
in your head, with or without your permission.
Then this information got some water and fertilizer
and with some frequency you developed a belief.
What was once a glorious repast, may now be a
decaying leftover.
Beliefs
are like cars. You may currently be sitting behind
the wheel of one that doesn't run. You can pray,
push, curse, or bemoan and the car still won't
take you where you want to go. It may be enough
to notice you need a new car. The good news is
new beliefs don't cost anything. They're abundant
and free. You may begin to wonder how soon you
can discover a belief that's not working and get
curious how quickly you can outgrow the old way
and grow into a new way. |
Road
Report
The
month of October we traveled throughout Vermont,
New Hampshire and Maine. It wasn't by accident
that we scheduled these visits during the peak
foliage season. If you have never experienced
the color of the leaves in October in New England,
you are truly missing a natural wonder of the
world. Pictures or paintings, no matter how detailed,
can never capture the breathtaking array of colors
that are on display. If the opportunity ever presents
itself, take advantage of it and witness this
natural phenomenon for yourself. We are looking
forward to our visit to upstate New York the week
before Thanksgiving. We will present our Smoking
Cessation and Weight Loss Seminars in Elmira,
Binghamton, and Oneonta, NY. Enjoy yourself at
Thanksgiving and celebrate with those that you
love.

Happy
Thanksgiving!
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